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U MATTER BUDDY™

This Hope Bear made its way to you because someone truly believes that U MATTER BUDDY™. It carries a little comfort, a little care, and a message of hope meant especially to share. Take a moment, hold it near, and keep reading to discover why this special bear is here. Don't forget to add your name below so that when you pass your Buddy along, to let someone else know that they matter too, you can see how far your 'lil Buddy travels.

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Must Read Information Prior to Continuing on this site

Health, Safety and External Resources Disclaimer The Hope Bear Project is an outreach initiative of Action & Awareness for Suicide Prevention—AASP THEY MATTER. It is intended to provide encouragement, connection and a reminder that every person matters. Not Medical or Environmental-Health Advice AASP THEY MATTER, its officers, team members, volunteers and representatives are not acting as physicians, licensed healthcare providers, environmental-health professionals, industrial hygienists, mold inspectors or mold-remediation specialists through this project or website. Information provided on this page concerning mold, damp or water-damaged environments, Multiple Chemical Sensitivity, chemical sensitivities, allergies, asthma, cleaning practices, contamination or other health-related matters is provided for general educational and awareness purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any medical condition, and it should not be used as a substitute for individualized medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Health conditions and environmental sensitivities can affect people differently. Anyone with questions or concerns about symptoms, allergies, mold exposure, chemical sensitivity or the safety of handling a Hope Bear should consult a trusted, qualified healthcare professional. Questions concerning mold contamination, environmental testing or remediation should be directed to an appropriately qualified environmental professional. If you believe you are experiencing a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate emergency medical assistance. Hope Bear Cleaning and Contamination Notice The Hope Bear is a soft, porous item that may be passed between individuals and may enter different homes, buildings, vehicles and environments. After the bear leaves AASP THEY MATTER, our organization cannot inspect, monitor or control every environment in which it is kept, the substances to which it may be exposed, or the cleaning methods used by each recipient. AASP THEY MATTER cannot guarantee that a Hope Bear will remain free from mold particles, allergens, dust, pet dander, fragrances, smoke, cleaning-product residue, bacteria, viruses or other environmental substances. Cleaning may reduce some surface dirt or residue, but no cleaning method described on this page is represented or guaranteed to remove every possible allergen, mold particle, microorganism, chemical residue or contaminant. If the Hope Bear has been kept in an environment with known or suspected mold, ongoing moisture intrusion, flooding, water damage, a persistent musty odor or visible microbial growth, do not pass the bear to another person. Because the Hope Bear is made from porous materials, ordinary washing may not make a mold-exposed bear suitable for transfer. The bear should also not be passed forward when: It has visible mold, unusual staining or a persistent musty odor. It has been exposed to smoke, strong fragrances, pesticides or other potentially irritating chemicals. It is wet, damp or has not dried completely after cleaning. Someone in the household currently has a potentially contagious illness. There is any reasonable concern that transferring the bear could affect the next recipient’s health or safety. Do not use bleach, ozone, fogging treatments, disinfectant sprays, perfumes, essential oils or strongly scented products in an attempt to make a contaminated bear safe for another person. When there is uncertainty, please keep the physical bear and continue the chain of love in another way. You may share an encouraging message, offer an act of kindness or remind someone personally that U MATTER BUDDY™. Protecting another person from a possible exposure is also an act of compassion. Voluntary Participation and Personal Responsibility Receiving, handling, cleaning, keeping or passing a Hope Bear is voluntary. Each participant is responsible for considering their own health circumstances, the condition of the bear and the environment in which the bear has been kept before deciding whether to handle or transfer it. Recipients should never pass the bear to another person when they know or reasonably suspect that it has been contaminated or that it could create a health concern. AASP THEY MATTER makes no warranty or guarantee that every Hope Bear will be appropriate for every individual. To the fullest extent permitted by applicable law, AASP THEY MATTER is not responsible for reactions, illnesses, injuries, property contamination or other damages arising from environmental exposure, improper cleaning, undisclosed contamination, or the handling or transfer of a Hope Bear after it has entered a recipient’s possession. External Links Disclaimer This page may contain links to websites, articles, agencies, organizations or resources operated by third parties. These links are provided solely for general education, awareness and convenience. A link does not mean that AASP THEY MATTER sponsors, endorses, recommends or is affiliated with the third party, its organization, its services, its products, its treatments or every statement presented on its website. AASP THEY MATTER does not control third-party websites and cannot guarantee that their information is complete, accurate, current, applicable to every person or free from errors. Third-party websites may also have their own privacy policies, accessibility practices, terms of use and data-collection procedures. Visitors should independently evaluate external information and discuss health-related questions with a trusted, qualified healthcare professional before making decisions concerning their health, treatment or environment. No Guarantee of Results The Hope Bear Project is designed to offer encouragement and promote compassionate connection. AASP THEY MATTER does not guarantee any particular emotional, medical, psychological or health-related result from receiving, keeping or passing a Hope Bear.

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Why Are You Holding the Hope Bear?

You are holding the Hope Bear because someone wanted to place a reminder of hope directly into your hands. They may have seen your strength, noticed that you were carrying something heavy, or simply felt that you needed to know how deeply your life matters.

 

This bear represents more than comfort...it represents connection.

It is proof that someone thought of you, cared about you, and chose to remind you that U MATTER BUDDY™.

 

Keep the Hope Bear for as long as you need it. Hold it close on difficult days and allow its message to stay with you. Then, when your heart feels ready, look for someone else who may need the same reminder.

 

The chain of love does not continue because someone is forced to give the bear away; it continues when the hope you received inspires you to offer kindness, encouragement, or the bear itself to another person.

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Please do not let the message end with you. Someone chose to remind you that you matter. One day, you may be the person who helps someone else believe it, too.

Welcome to the U MATTER BUDDY Family of 4

Once upon a September morning, six very special little travelers were getting ready for the adventure of a lifetime.

It was September 1, 2026, and the very first U MATTER BUDDY™ HOPE BEARS were fluffing their fur, packing their tiny imaginary suitcases, and preparing to leave home. They had been given one BIG mission: carry hope.

Six Hope Bears headed out across the USA, each traveling to a different place and each searching for someone who might need one very important reminder: U MATTER BUDDY™.

Their first six buddies received more than a bear. Alongside each little traveler came a special suicide prevention Hope Package filled with encouragement, meaningful reminders, and little pieces of hope created to say, in as many ways as possible: you matter, you are important, and you are not alone. And tucked into the journey with every U MATTER BUDDY™ was something very special: their very own Buddy Passport.

Every Buddy in Batch #1, Batch #2, Batch #3, and Batch #4 has a Buddy Passport because these little travelers were never created to stay in one place. Their passports are part of their story from the moment their journey begins.

Think of it as your Buddy’s tiny travel journal. Every new stop becomes another chapter in the story: another person, another town, another state, another heart reached. When your Buddy is ready to travel again, their passport travels right along with them, documenting just how far one little message of hope can go. And that was how the very first links in our Chain of Hope began. But these little bears were never meant to settle down forever. You see, a U MATTER BUDDY™ has places to go, hearts to reach, and people to remind that their story still matters. So when the time feels right, each person is invited to help their Buddy pack up again and continue the journey by passing them along to someone else who could use a little extra hope.

And just when we thought six little travelers might be the whole story, something wonderful happened.

People began asking for more.

Our community fell in love with the mission, generous people stepped forward to help, and before long, eight more U MATTER BUDDY™ HOPE BEARS joined the adventure!

Batch #2 began heading out on September 4, 2026.

They may have looked a little different from the original six, but every single one carried the very same mission: a little hope, a little encouragement, their Buddy Passport ready for the miles ahead, and one very BIG message...

U MATTER BUDDY™.

The journey kept growing, and so did the U MATTER BUDDY™ family. More little travelers joined the mission, more Hope Packages were prepared, and more people became part of this growing Chain of Hope.

Then came September 27, 2026, and another incredible chapter was added to our story.

Thanks to three wonderful and gracious donors, we were able to package up eight more Hope Bear Boxes, extend the journey into Batch #4, and expand The Hope Bear Project even further.

Eight more boxes. Eight more Buddy Passports. Eight more journeys about to begin. Eight more opportunities to place a reminder of hope into someone’s hands.

What began on September 1 with six little travelers had grown into something much bigger than we ever imagined. Every donor who stepped forward helped give another Buddy the chance to travel. Every box packed represented another person who would soon open it and discover a simple but powerful message waiting inside:

You matter. Your life matters. Your story matters. U MATTER BUDDY™.

And with Batch #4, the Chain of Hope grew a little longer.

Which brings us to YOU.

If you’re reading this, you discovered the secret QR code and found your way into the Hope Bear Hideaway.

Shhh... not everyone knows how to get here.

This little corner of the U MATTER BUDDY™ world is especially for the people who have become part of the journey. That means somewhere along the way, one of our little travelers found you.

Pretty special, huh?

Before you explore, we have to stop and thank the incredible donors and supporters who helped make these adventures possible. Every trip requires packaging, materials, postage, Hope items, and a community willing to believe that something as simple as a little traveling Buddy can start a much bigger conversation.

Without them, many of these little paws would never have made it out the door.

To the three donors who helped us expand into Batch #4 on September 27, and to every person who has donated, supported, shared, packed, mailed, encouraged, or simply believed in this project: thank you for helping us keep hope moving forward.

And now comes one of our favorite parts...

Scroll down and see where the U MATTER BUDDY™ family has traveled. Follow the journey, discover the stops, and see how one small message can travel from person to person, heart to heart, and maybe someday all the way across the country.

And if a U MATTER BUDDY™ has found their way to you, remember: you aren’t just holding a Hope Bear. You are now one of the links in the Chain of Hope.

Take care of your Buddy. Enjoy your time together. Let their message sink in. And when the time feels right, help those little paws get moving again. And don’t forget to send their Buddy Passport along for the adventure!

Because somewhere out there, another person may be waiting for the message you’re now carrying.

U MATTER BUDDY™.

Where will your Buddy go next?

Don’t let the Chain of Hope end with you.

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U MATTER BUDDY™

Sunray Bear

Sunray strives to bring light into your darkest moments. No matter what you may be facing today, let Sunray remind you that even the smallest light can help guide you forward. When the path feels uncertain, keep looking toward the light...one step, one moment, and one day at a time. U MATTER, BUDDY™.

Batch #1 (SIX DELIVERED Sept 1st, 2026)

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Cuddle Bear

Don’t let his ’lil height fool ya! Cuddle Bear may be small, but he carries a BIG reminder: make time for YOU. He’s all about slowing down, getting cozy, and remembering that taking care of yourself matters, too. So take a little “me” time, give yourself some grace, and remember...U MATTER, BUDDY™.

Batch #2 

(EIGHT DELIVERED - September 4th, 5th, & 7th, 2026)

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Buddy Bandit

Our ’lil Buddy Bandit raccoon represents resilience, adaptability, and finding a way forward even through the darkness. With his tiny mask, curious paws, and a whole lot of determination, he’s here to remind you that sometimes surviving means getting a little creative along the way. He may look small and a 'lil mischievous, but his mission is serious: carry hope, spread kindness, and remind you...U MATTER, BUDDY™.

Batch #3 

(12 out of 12 delivered throughout September and October 2026).

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U MATTER BUDDY™

Cuddle Bear

Don’t let his ’lil height fool ya! Cuddle Bear may be small, but he carries a BIG reminder: make time for YOU. He’s all about slowing down, getting cozy, and remembering that taking care of yourself matters, too. So take a little “me” time, give yourself some grace, and remember...U MATTER, BUDDY™.

Batch #4 - 6 out of 8 delivered 9/27/26

Information for all Hope Bear Buddies 

WHO & WHY

This Hope Bear was given to you by someone who believes your life has value. They wanted you to receive a personal reminder that you are seen, you are cared about, and U MATTER BUDDY™.

WHAT

The Hope Bear is more than a stuffed animal. It carries a message of comfort, encouragement, and connection. You may keep it for as long as you need, or pass it forward to someone else who may need the same reminder.

WHEN & WHERE

There is no deadline and no required destination. The Hope Bear can stay with you until the time feels right. When you are ready, it may continue its journey to a friend, family member, coworker, neighbor, or anyone who needs a reminder that they matter too.

HOW

Hold the bear close, read its message, and let it remind you that you matter. Before passing it forward, clean it carefully, keep the tag and QR code attached, and give it with kindness by saying, “Someone believes U MATTER BUDDY™.”

FOLLOW THE HOPE BEAR JOURNEY

Each Hope Bear carries one simple message: U MATTER BUDDY™. As these bears travel from one person to another, their stories travel with them. Below are messages shared by people who have received a Hope Bear along the way.

By submitting this form, you understand that your Name, State, and Message may be displayed in the Hope Bear Journey section after review and approval by AASP THEY MATTER. Please only share information you are comfortable having displayed on this page.

Your message will be reviewed before it appears on the Hope Bear Journey.

Please share only information you are comfortable having displayed on this private page. If you are having any problems adding your footprint to the Hope Bear's Journey below, please contact us directly and we will manually add your name, state, and message. 

Thank you so much for sending this bear! It brightened my day and helps me realize I do matter.

Brody

Arkansas

"I love my hope bear 💜🩵💜🩵💜🩵, after working for 5 years at a local mental health clinic they let me go. Very short notice. The hope bear came to my door the day after. I can’t tell you how much it has helped me ever since."

Margaret (Suzi) Bowden

Arizona

Coming home today and finding this special package waiting for me touched my heart more than I can put into words. 💜🩵 To be chosen as the first recipient of Hope Bear #3 and an original link in the U Matter Buddy chain of hope feels incredibly meaningful—especially during Suicide Prevention Awareness Month. Since losing Kaylee, I’ve been trying to turn the deepest pain of my life into something that might bring hope to someone else. This little bear is a reminder that even through grief, love can keep traveling. Hope can keep traveling. And one person reminding another that they matter can make a difference. I’m honored to be part of Hope Bear’s journey, and when it’s time for me to send him on, a little piece of Kaylee’s legacy will travel with him. 🦋

Stephanie Chapman

Michigan

Safety, Care & Pass-Along Disclosure Our U MATTER BUDDY™ HOPE BEARS were created by Action & Awareness for Suicide Prevention (AASP THEY MATTER) as part of a compassionate adult outreach initiative. Each bear carries one simple message: you matter, and you do not have to walk through difficult moments believing otherwise. The Hope Bear Project is intended for adult participants age 18 and older. The U MATTER BUDDY™ HOPE BEAR is an outreach item and is not intended to be provided to infants or young children as a toy. IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: Your Hope Bear may arrive with tags, plastic tag fasteners, packaging materials, accessories, or other small or detachable components. These items may present a choking or ingestion hazard, particularly to infants and children. Please remove and properly discard plastic fasteners, packaging materials, and any unnecessary detachable pieces before displaying, handling, hugging, or passing your Hope Bear along. Keep all small components away from infants, children, and anyone who may place small objects in their mouth. Please periodically inspect your Hope Bear. If you notice a loose component, torn seam, damaged accessory, exposed filling, broken fastener, or other damage, please discontinue use until the affected component has been safely removed or repaired.

How to Clean the Hope Bear

Before passing the Hope Bear to someone new, please give it a gentle cleaning so it can continue its journey fresh and ready to share hope. ​ Always check the manufacturer’s care label first. The removable U MATTER BUDDY™ T-shirt may remain on the bear while it is being cleaned. ​ Use cool water and only a small amount of fragrance-free, dye-free detergent or unscented gentle soap. Avoid bleach, fabric softener, dryer sheets, disinfectant sprays, perfumes, essential oils, scented detergents, or fabric-refreshing sprays. Even products described as “natural” can contain fragrances that may affect people with allergies or Multiple Chemical Sensitivity. ​ If the care label allows machine washing, place the bear inside a pillowcase or mesh laundry bag and wash it on a gentle cycle. For surface cleaning, lightly dampen a clean cloth with cool, soapy water and gently wipe the bear without soaking it. Wipe it again with a separate cloth dampened with clean water to remove any remaining soap. ​ Allow the Hope Bear to air-dry completely in a clean, well-ventilated area before placing it inside a clean bag or passing it forward. Please do not give the bear to another person while it is damp. A gentle, fragrance-free cleaning helps make the Hope Bear welcoming and considerate for the next person who holds it.

IMPORTANT MOLD-SAFETY NOTICE

If the Hope Bear has been inside a home or building with known or suspected mold contamination, please do not pass it to another person.

This includes homes with active mold growth, recurring water damage, flooding, ongoing moisture problems, or a persistent musty odor. Please follow this precaution even when the bear looks and smells clean. A Hope Bear is made from soft, porous materials. Mold and mold particles can settle within porous materials and may be difficult...or sometimes impossible...to remove completely through ordinary washing. For this reason, cleaning the bear does not guarantee that it is appropriate to pass forward after it has been exposed to a mold-contaminated environment. This precaution is especially important because the bear’s next recipient could have asthma, mold allergies, a weakened immune system, Multiple Chemical Sensitivity, or a serious mold-related illness such as Chronic Inflammatory Response Syndrome, commonly referred to as CIRS. Mold exposure can cause significant reactions in susceptible individuals, including respiratory, eye, skin, and allergy-related symptoms and more. What Should You Do? Please do not spray the bear with bleach, disinfectant, fragrance, essential oils, ozone products, or other chemicals in an attempt to decontaminate it. Place the Hope Bear inside a clean, securely closed bag and do not give, donate, mail, or otherwise transfer it to another person. Contact AASP THEY MATTER at theymatter@aasptheymatter.org for further instructions. Please do not mail the bear back unless our team specifically asks you to do so. You may still continue the chain of love without passing along the physical bear. Share its message with someone, offer an encouraging word, perform an act of kindness, or remind another person: U MATTER BUDDY™ Protecting the next person is also an act of love. Learn More About Indoor Mold and Exposed Belongings For reliable information about indoor mold, moisture control, cleanup, and porous belongings, please review the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency’s Guide to Mold, Moisture and Your Home and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s Mold Health and Cleanup Guidance.

Who made the Hope Bear?

Batch #1

Your Hope Bear was lovingly personalized by the AASP THEY MATTER Team using products purchased from independent sellers. The plush bear was purchased by our team, through Amazon from the VYUSIT Store. The product is described as a 10-inch soft plush teddy bear. You may review the original product and seller information below. https://shorturl.at/2aha5 ​ The removable white T-shirt was purchased through Amazon from Get Ready Kids. The seller describes it as a blank, white crew-neck polyester shirt designed for stuffed animals and other plush toys. The manufacturer’s listed care instruction for the blank shirt is hand wash only. ​ Review T-SHIRT:  The U MATTER BUDDY™ message and artwork placed on the T-shirt were created and applied by the AASP THEY MATTER Team on our software. AASP THEY MATTER personalized and distributed the finished Hope Bear but did not manufacture the original plush bear or blank T-shirt.

Batch #2 & #4

Your Hope Bear was lovingly personalized by the AASP THEY MATTER Team using products purchased from independent sellers. The plush bear was purchased by our team, through Amazon from the Jenaai Store. The product is described as a 10-inch small soft plush teddy bear. Made of soft plush fabric with PP cotton filling. Not for Children under 3. You may visit their store front on Amazon. ​ The removable white T-shirt was purchased through Amazon from Get Ready Kids. The seller describes it as a blank, white crew-neck polyester shirt designed for stuffed animals and other plush toys. The manufacturer’s listed care instruction for the blank shirt is hand wash only. ​ Review T-SHIRT:  The U MATTER BUDDY™ message and artwork placed on the T-shirt were created and applied by the AASP THEY MATTER Team on our software. AASP THEY MATTER personalized and distributed the finished Hope Bear but did not manufacture the original plush bear or blank T-shirt. ​ Your little buddy also has a keepsake hope bracelet for you that looks like a necklace on him. This is yours to keep as a reminder when you pass your little buddy on that U MATTER BUDDY.

Batch #3

Your Hope Bear was lovingly personalized by the AASP THEY MATTER Team using products purchased from independent sellers. Buddy Bandit is approximately 9.8 inches (25 cm) tall, lightweight, portable, and made with soft PP cotton material that makes him easy to fluff and cuddle. The raccoon plush itself was purchased from Teyva Daily through Amazon. The U MATTER BUDDY™ message and design were created by us using our own design software, then printed and personally attached by our team as part of The Hope Bear Project. The removable white T-shirt was purchased through Amazon from Get Ready Kids. The seller describes it as a blank, white crew-neck polyester shirt designed for stuffed animals and other plush toys. The manufacturer’s listed care instruction for the blank shirt is hand wash only. ​ Review T-SHIRT:  The U MATTER BUDDY™ message and artwork placed on the T-shirt were created and applied by the AASP THEY MATTER Team on our software. AASP THEY MATTER personalized and distributed the finished Hope Bear but did not manufacture the original plush bear or blank T-shirt. ​ Your little buddy also has a keepsake hope bracelet for you that looks like a necklace on him. This is yours to keep as a reminder when you pass your little buddy on that U MATTER BUDDY.

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